Are labels or limited beliefs stifling you? When you were very young and someone asked you "What do you want to be when you grow up?" What did you reply? Whatever it was, I'll bet your answer wasn't limited by negativity or limiting beliefs. I bet you didn't see any reason why you weren't worthy of becoming what you dreamt of regardless of gender, financial limitations, culture, stigmas, or labels.
Do you find yourself projecting what you will do tomorrow? Are you writing your to-do list while sitting waiting for the doctor to see your child rather than talking? Are you sitting in a staff meeting thinking what will I have for lunch? Where will I go? What will we do this weekend?